Saturday, May 21, 2011

THE RULES OF A GENTLEMAN.

1. Run with her on the beach
2. Give her your sweater when she’s cold.
3. Never talk about other girls in front of her.
4. Learn to play the guitar for her.
5. Comfort her when she’s scared.
6. Watch the sunset with her.
7. If she can’t sleep read her a bedtime story.
8. If you get in a fight with her and she starts crying, just stop and hold her.
9. Never force her to do anything.
10. Call her beautiful, especially when she least expects it.
11. Never let her walk home alone.
12. Play with her hair when she’s lying on your chest.
13. Always make the first move.
14. Never lie to her, She’ll find out.
15. Kiss her when she’s sleeping.
16. Sing to her no matter how terrible your voice is. (…she’ll like it.)
17. When she’s fighting with someone, defend her even when you don’t think she’s right.
18. Accept her for who she is.
19. Call her beautiful instead of hot or sexy.
20. Don’t let go first during a hug.
21. Tell her if she has something in her hair.
22. Tell her you love her before she sleeps every night.
23. Never go through her messages.
24. Making her look bad in front of your friends will make you look bad, too.
25. Always have her back.
26. Kiss her in the rain.
27. Leave her voice messages to wake up to.
28. Stay on the call with her even if she fell asleep.
29. Let her fall asleep in your arms.
30. Give her piggyback rides.
31. Call her babe.
32. Apologize when you’re wrong.
33. Always open the door for her.
34. Boobs or butts don’t matter.
35. Notice the little things.
36. Give her flowers.
37. Good hygiene is a must.
38. Be Confident.
39. Don’t swear.
40. Carry things for her.
41. Always be the stronger one.
42. Pay for dinner.
43. Hold her chair.
44. Be a good listener.
45. Don’t brag.
46. Compliment her.
47. Don’t use her.
48. Respect her.
49. Perform random acts of kindness.
50. Never take her for granted.
51. Give her breakfast in bed.
52. Hang out with her friends too, not just yours.
53. Do whatever it takes to make her happy.
54. She’s more important than videogames.
55. If she slaps you, you probably deserved it.
56. She should have three things from you, your sweatshirt, a stuffed animal and a really pretty ring.
57. Never slap her, even if it’s a joke.
58. If they complain that something hurts, rub it for them without being asked.
59. Forget her birthday once and you’re screwed.
60. Hug her from behind.
61. Never insult her, even if you’re just fooling around.
62. Don’t make a promise if you meant to break it.
63. Never miss a date.
64. Try your best to get her something on your vacation. (…it doesn’t have to be expensive, as long as it’s from the heart.
65. Wear that knitted sweater she made for you. (it will mean the world to her.)
66. Never ask her to buy you things.
67. If you love her, show her, not your friends.
68. Don’t get upset if she wants to watch chick flicks. (…you might even like it.)
69. When she’s sick, don’t neglect her.
70. Reply her texts.
71. Never ask a girl out because of a dare.
72. Never be late for a date.
73. Unexpected surprises.
74. When both of you are in a fight, take the blame even if she’s wrong.
75. Listen to what she has to say.
76. If you know she loves you, don’t play with her emotions and take advantage of it.
77. When she refuses to talk to you because you did something to upset her, insist and make up for it.
78. Make her feel like a princess.
79. Shift to the dangerous side when crossing the street.
80. When she drops something, stop whatever you’re doing to help her.
81. Never let her down or blow her off.
82. Treat her like your best friend.
83. Kiss her hand.
84. Love her when she least deserves it—that’s when she needs it the most.
85. Tell her your stories and feelings too. She wants to hear them. Promise.
86. Don’t tell her lies just to spare her feelings; she’d rather know the truth now rather than finding out later.
87. Yes, “I’m cold” is another way of saying “hug me”.
88. Believe her and believe in her.
89. Good grammar is sexy.
90. Look her in the eyes.
91. Let her rest her head on your shoulder.
92. Take the initiative to go and talk to her.
93. Have pillow fights with her.
94. Never talk behind her back.
95. Never be a jerk to her in front of her friends.
96. Never go to parties or hang out with other girls without her.
97. Never make excuses.
98. Don’t talk to her when you’re mad. (…you will screw something up)
99. Don’t try to keep anything from her.
100. Slip sweet notes in her locker. (…it will complete her day.)
101. Never let a day pass without saying “I Love You” to her.
102. Always protect her from any kind of harm.
103. Never give her a reason to think that she’s the man in the relationship.
104. Grand gestures.
105. Kiss her under the stars.
106. Love her unconditionally.
107. Make her an album of the songs that reminds you of her.
108. Never lead her on if you know nothing’s going to happen.
109. Never answer “Does this make me look fat?” question. (…it’s a trick.)
110. If you love her, never let her slip away.
111. Your warmth soothes her heart.
112. Smile and laugh at her jokes, even if they aren’t funny.
113. Always be available for her.
114. If you love her, tell her before its too late.
115. Never forget an anniversary.
116. When she’s with you, always make her feel like she’s you’re first and last.
117. Little compliments mean a lot to her.
118. Show her off in front of your friends.
119. When she’s tired, carry her.
120. Never accuse.
121. Do it because you want to, not because you want something back in return.
122. Actions speak louder then words.
123. Have those I-Love-you-more-fights. (…she thinks it’s cute.)
124. Never say “whatever” when you are arguing with her. (…it’ll make her madder.)
125. Never blame her for your mistakes.
126. She loves that cute smirk. Promise.
127. A gentleman is the one who never hurt anyone’s feelings unintentionally. (-Sir Oscar Fingal O’Flahertie Wills Wilde)
128. No more bro’s before hoes. Well respected women, before bro’s.
129. Don’t go anywhere without kissing her goodbye.
130. Hold the door for every girl, attractive or not.
131. Try to write a song for her, even if you’re not musically inclined. (…she’ll love it no matter what.)
132. Text her good morning to have her day start with a smile.
133. She comes first. Always.
134. Never let her forget how much she means to you.
135. Never let her fall asleep waiting for your call.
136. Her “nothing” is always something.
137. Never tell a girl she doesn’t understand. Ever. Chances are she does.
138. Forehead kisses.
139. Have a day for just you and her; she loves the one on one time.
140. Have tickle fights with her. (…but let her win.)
141. Dance with her even when there’s no music on.
142. Stay up, even if you are tired to talk or chat with her.
143. Never give her a reason to doubt your feelings for her.
144. Never reject her kisses or hugs.
145. Don’t text or call her just because you’re bored.
146. Kiss her spontaneously in the middle of her sentence.
147. Love her for who she is, not for who you want her to be.
148. When she pushes you away, pull her closer.
149. Love her for who she is, not for who you want her to be.
150. If a girl admits that she likes you, know that it took every ounce of courage in her to say that. Don’t be an idiot, don’t take her for granted.
151. Call her love. It sounds classy.
152. Tuck her hair behind her ears.
153. Never compare her with your ex-girlfriends. She is incomparable.
154. Never underestimate a girl’s ability to find things out.
155. If you fall in love with her, tell her. Just be prepared to catch her.
156. In the middle of a hug, squeeze a little harder.
157. A gentleman always cheers for his hometown team. Win or Lose.
158. A gentleman respects every woman in his life. If you can’t respect your own mother, forget about respecting your girlfriend.
159. Stupid lame jokes; awkwardly adorable moments.
160. A gentleman thinks first before saying it.
161. A gentleman is never rude.
162. A gentleman never breaks a promise.
163. Don’t try to out dress a woman. She should be the center of attention and should not feel that she’s under dressed.
164. A gentleman always dresses well.
165. Don’t just talk the talk.
166. Look people in the eyes when you greet them and shake their hands.
167. Never cut someone off.
168. When hugging her, lift her off her feet and spin around. (…she’ll love it.)
169. Open doors. Pull out Chairs. Let her order first. Simple manners.
170. Give girls a little extra respect.
171. A secret rooftop meeting never gets old.
172. Calling her “baby” will make her melt every time. Promise.
173. When listening to the radio, if a love song comes on, squeeze her hand tighter.
174. A gentleman never hits a girl. Ever.
175. Confidence is sexy. Cockiness is not.
176. Hold her while she cries, nothing feels better.
177. Always maintain eye contact. It a sign that you are paying attention to her.
178. If you make her bite her lips, know that you’re doing a damn good job on whatever you’re doing.
179. Hold her tight, she won’t want you to let go.
180. Make holding her hand too tight be the only way you can hurt her.
181. Kisses aren’t everything; never underestimate the power of a good hug.
182. Play with her fingers; she loves the way your hand touches hers.
183. Grand gestures and complimenting the little things aren’t opposites. Do both.
184. Don’t tell her you love is forever unless you have no doubt it is.
185. Tell her all your sweet memories together. She’ll be smiling all day long knowing that you remember every single moment of it.
186. If she’s amazing, she won’t be easy. If she’s easy, she won’t be amazing. If she’s worth it, you won’t give up. If you give up, you’re not worthy enough.
187. A man’s biggest mistake is giving another man an opportunity to make his woman smile. If you love her, don’t give another guy that chance. It should be you making her smile.
188. Every gentleman should have at least one suit in his closet.
189. A good look is just a bonus if you have a great personality.
190. A gentleman should always have one good watch on his wrist. It's a mark of character and dignity.
191. Gentlemen, wear a belt. It's called underwear for a reason.
192. Don't try to out dress a woman. She should be the center of attention and should not feel that she's under dressed.
193. Being open-minded and aware of the world around you shows class and sophistication, but avoid seeming pretentious by being modest instead of showing off what you know.
194. Don't ask about the last guy she was with. Being competitive is a young man's game.
195. Avoid public fights with your woman. Keep things private to let her know there's an exclusive world that you and her share.
196. Avoid unnecessary use of expletives in public, especially in the presence of a woman you're trying to impress.
197. If you want to leave her, leave her breathless. If you want to lie, lie next to her. If you want to let go, let go of your pride and pursue her.
198. Boasting about your intelligence isn’t attractive, neither is downplaying it.
199. Always keep the balance between obsession and apathy. Make her feel important but give her some space when she needs it.
200. Gentlemen, be aware that the line between confidence and arrogance is extremely thin.
201. Every girl wants that feeling of being wanted and belonged to. So gentlemen, give it to her. Give her your undivided attention, the best that you can offer her and the best of that you know she deserves.
202. Always kiss your lady’s hand. It will make her feel like a queen.
203. Apologize. You are not degrading yourself, you are showing that you care for that person's feelings.
204. Don't tell her you love her, unless you really mean it.
205. Nice guys finish last because they put their ladies first.
206. Don't waste time looking for all the wrong ones, when you already have the right one.
207. Whatever you give a woman, she's going to multiply. If you give her sperm, she'll give you a baby. If you give her a house, she'll give you a home. So- if you give her any crap, you will receive tons of shit.
208. Chivalry is very much alive. Just because a girl acts like she doesn't care for those small things, inside she's really looking for it.
209. Don't bring up how many girls you've been with; it will not look you better nor will it impress her.
210. Tell her nobody's perfect, but she is as perfect as they come.
211. Allow your lady to walk ahead of you,  not all over you.
212. Don't tell her you love her, if you have another girl by your side.
213. A girl's dream is to own something that belongs to you. When she has that, she feels extra close to you.
214. If you feel as if you'd die for her, live in such a way that she would know that.
215. Go ahead, take a punch for her, give one if necessary, just make sure she wasn't the one that got hurt.
216. Sometimes you shouldn't have to ask how she's doing. Read the signs: look into her eyes.
217. A boy makes her girl jealous of other women. A gentleman makes other women jealous of his girl.
218. Spill your heart out to her; if she loves you she'll love to listen.
219. "Don't date the most beautiful girl in the world, date the girl who makes your world the most beautiful."
220. Don't flip out when your girlfriend wonders who you're with or what you're doing. It means she cares and she's actually afraid to lose you to someone else.
221. Just because she has dated douchebags does't mean there isn't a chance for a nice guy.
222. When she starts to let go during a hug, pull her even closer and hug her even tighter.
223. If she worries about you, it just means she cares. But when she stops caring, that's when you should be worried.
224. Give her something to tell her friends about.
225. Kiss her nose.
226. Real men never stop trying to show a girl how much she means to him, even after he's got her.
227. Remember, whenever she finishes a sentence with "I've never told anyone that before," make sure to never forget.
228. There are so many fish in the sea. Do not settle until you have found your mermaid.
229. A gentleman can recognise it when he loses a fight. Know the difference between standing up for yourself and being a fool.
230. Hold her when she's crying and tell her that everything's going to be okay.
231. YOU CAME FROM A WOMAN. SO YOU HAVE NO RIGHT TO DISRESPECT ONE.
232. A gentleman should always give up his seat for the elderly.
233. A gentleman never lies to his woman. Ever.
234. Never ever make a girl feel anything less than perfect.
235. If you aren't treating her right, don't be mad when somebody else does.
236. When you say "I Love You", say it in a way she'll want to hear it. Look her in the eyes; grasp her hand; and lean close to her, so she knows you're truly serious.
237. Remember, she loves you for you. So don't try to go around changing yourself just to impress her.
238. "Anyone can be heroic from time to time, but a gentleman is something you have to be all the time." -Luigi Pirandello
239. When she rubs her arms with both her hands, it's another sign saying, "Hug me, make me warm."
240. When you're holding hands, squeeze hers from time to time. It will surely make her look at you and smile.
241. A true gentleman should never take advantage of any lady.
242. A gentleman only lies to his woman if it involves surprising her.
243. Before speaking your concerns, give them thought, then do so appropriately.
244. A gentleman is always a gentleman and nothing less.
245. Any lady just wants you to be a well-mannered gentleman that treats others right.
246. Tell her she's beautiful everyday. You don't know how much that will mean to her.
247. Be the one who stays by her side and protects her. Especially when no one else does.
248. Honesty. She'll respect you even more.
249. Love her when she least deserves it because that's when she needs it most.
250. It doesn't matter how many fights you two may get into. If you truly do love her, it should never matter. Ever.
251. Fall in love with her flaws. Everything else will be a plus.
252. A gentleman respects a woman's boundaries.
253. A gentleman admits when he's wrong, and stand his ground when he is right.
254. If you break up with her, check up on her every once in a while to make sure she's alright.
255. Remember, she has a past too. Don't hold it against her.
256. A gentleman is smart, but a great gentleman is well educated.
257. Never, ever give her a reason to feel threatened by another woman.
258. A true man's heart knows no distance.
259. If she's responsible for your smile, then be responsible with her heart.
260. Don't make her feel special when she's actually not. Avoid false hopes.
261. Just because you've stopped talking to each other doesn't mean you're not on her mind.
262. A good gentleman treats his mother like a queen.
263. A kiss is nothing unless it is backed up feelings for her.
264. She deserves the best. Even if you're not meant to be the man to give it to her.
265. Pretty & sexy is not the same as beautiful.
266. Being a male is a matter of birth. Being a man is a matter of age. But, being a gentleman is a matter of choice.
267. Never miss a chance to tell her you love her because you never know when it'll be your last.
268. Men are supposed to lead, not lead on.
269. Chivalry will never run out of style.
270. If you love her, remember that on the bad days.
271. Calm, cool & composed. All characteristics a gentleman possesses.
272. If she leans against you, hug her. She wants to be held.
273. Never make her stay up all night waiting for your call, and have to realise late at night that you aren't going to call.
274. You need to have your favourite song. The one that reminds you how it all began. Make sure she never forgets it.
275. Hold her tighter, kiss her harder and love her more as everyday goes by.
276. Treat everybody equally. Their sexual orientation should not matter.
277. A gentleman never pursues an already taken woman.
278. Good morning texts.
279. Be a lady's man, not a ladies a man.
280. Make her your everything in front of everyone, every time.
281. The acknowledgement of a gentleman is found through his actions and the word in which he gives.
282. Ladies first.
283. She chose to be with you, don't test her.
284. A gentleman never has to tell anyone he is a gentleman.
285. Love her through life, through death, and even after that.
286. Never make a promise you can't keep.
287. Don't ever hold anything against her, especially her mistakes.
288. A gentleman knows when to call her sexy and when to let her know she's beautiful.
289. Spending time with your lady is all well and good, but a gentleman never forget his friends.
290. Trust will make or break your relationship.
291. Chivalry and respect are as natural to gentleman as breathing. They should not require effort.
292. It does't have to be her Birthday or Valentine's Day. Show up at her door with a rose, a blanket & a picnic basket.
293. Practice what you preach.
294. A gentleman should not abuse power, but they shouldn't forget that they have it.
295. Treat every woman the way you'd want your daughter to be treated.
296. Don't leave her because of long distance. The absence makes the heart grow fonder.
297. A gentleman must know how to take care of himself as well.
298. If you care about her, chase after her.
299. A gentleman should not easily let his woman slip his sight, but he should know her freedom of space.
300. Play games not ladies.
301. A gentleman never allows himself to come second to another, and knows when he has to move on.
302. Sometimes she's just waiting for you to make the first move.
303. Be yourself. Because by being yourself you could possibly be everything that she needs.
304. Texting her "good morning beautiful" instantly puts her in a good mood. It lets her know that she is the first thing you think about when you wake up in the morning.
305. The trick to being a gentleman is making her feel like a lady.
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to be continued...

Thursday, May 19, 2011

ETIQUETTE FOR A LADY

1. Stay classy.
2. Always cross your legs when wearing a skirt. Always.
3. Chew like you have a secret.
4. Smile, it helps you get your way.
5. Leave the rumor-spreading and trash-talking to Gossip Girl.
6. Respect yourself. (If you don’t, he won’t either.)
7. Leggings are not pants.
8. Keep your heels, head and standards high.
9. If he doesn’t treat you like a princess, then he doesn’t deserve to be your prince.
10. Love your body. (It’s the only one you’ve got.)
11. Never reveal your age, weight or bra size
12. Proper grammar will get you far in life.
13. No, passing out drunk on the floor is not sexy.
14. Being beautiful is a choice. (…and it’s never too late to choose it.)
15. Never dumb yourself down for a boy.
16. Being single doesn’t mean you’re weak; it means you’re strong enough to wait for what you really deserve.
17. Always know how short is too short, be it a dress, haircut, heels or a man.
18. Confidence is your best accessory; never leave home without it.
19. Getting back with your ex is like taking a shower, getting out, and putting back on the same old dirty pair of underwear.
20. Makeup is meant to enhance beauty, not cover it. (Leave the down makeup for the circus.)
21. Never let a boy define who you are or what you are worth.
22. Don’t belittle yourself for anyone.
23. If they can’t do their part, then they don’t deserve your heart.
24. Don’t make someone a priority if they only consider you an option.
25. Be a force of nature
26. Never allow yourself to be bullied into silence.
27. When in doubt, what would Audrey do?
28. If he leaves or gives up on you, remember, it’s his loss, not yours.
29. You are beautiful, and no one has the right to tell you otherwise.
30. Be careful who you open up to. Only few people actually care, the rest are just curious.
31. Never settle for less than you deserve.
32. Think before you speak. (You never know who’s listening.)
33. If they can’t handle you at your worst, then they sure as hell don’t deserve you at your best.
34. Be your own heroine. (The only thing you need to be saved from is the idea that you need to be saved.)
35. Less is more. The less you reveal, the more people can wonder.
36. Every calorie is not a war. (You are beautiful, no matter what you eat.)
37. No one can make you feel inferior without consent. (Eleonor Roosevelt)
38. Beware of men who only compliment you on your body.
39. Be kind, even to those who are not.
40. If you love two people at the same time, choose the second one. Because if you really loved the first one, then you wouldn’t have fallen for the second. (Johnny Depp)
41. A smile is the prettiest thing you can wear.
42. Being alone and being lonely are two different things. (Even if you are one, you don’t have to be the other.)
43. Say what you feel. (This is no longer a man’s world, Ladies.)
44. Do not mess with someone else’s feelings just because you are unsure of yours.
45. Simplicity is the ultimate sophistication.
46. Shower curtain ruin the ambiance of every sexy picture you try to take of yourself.
47. Your dresses should be tight enough to show you’re a woman, and loose enough to show you’re a lady.
48. Never be reckless with someone else’s heart and don’t tolerate those who are reckless with yours.
49. You can’t expect him to be perfect. (…nobody is.)
50. Never start fights, but know how to finish them.
51. Love your mother.
52. Be yourself; everyone else is already taken (Oscar wilde)
53. Fall in love when you’re ready, not when you’re lonely.
54. Judging a person does not define who they are. It defines who you are.
55. Live well. Love much. Laugh often.
56. It’s okay not to be okay.
57. The sexiest curve on your body is your smile. (Flaunt it.)
58. Beauty is only skin deep; elegance is innate.
59. If he doesn’t chase you when you walk away, keep walking.
60. Beauty may get the attention, but personality will capture the heart.
61. If you aren’t happy single, you won’t be happy taken. Happiness comes from within, not from men.
62. Your “flaws” are the greatest things about you, and aren’t flaws at all.
63. You can make more friends in two months by becoming interested in other people than you can in two years by trying to get people interested in you.
64. An ugly personality destroys a pretty face.
65. Forget what has hurt you in the past, but never forget what it has taught you.
66. There are so many people out there that will tell you that you can’t. What you’ve got to do is turn around and say, “Watch me.”
67. Come to love not by finding the perfect person, but by seeing an imperfect person perfectly.
68. No person is worth your tears, and the one who is won’t make you cry.
69. Stay on top of things.
70. Blow kisses, not boys.
71. Makeup can make you look pretty on the outside, but it doesn’t help if you’re ugly on the inside. (…unless, you eat it.)
72. If people are trying to bring you down, it only means that you are above them.
73. Never be a spectator unfairness or stupidity.
74. Don’t let people get under your skin, no matter how hard they try.
75. Crying does not indicate that you are weak. Since birth, it has always been a sign that you are alive.
76. The words: Little. Black. Dress.
77. When you are angry, you have the right to be angry, but never the right to be cruel.
78. Act your age, not your shoe size.
79. Follow your heart, but don’t forget to take your brain with you, too.
80. Swallow your pride occasionally, it’s not fattening.
81. You should be able to make a man smile with your clothes on.
82. Mistakes are avoidable. Learn how to forgive yourself.
83. Always dress like you're going to see your worst enemy. (Kimora Lee Simmons)
84. When all else fails, kill them with kindness.
85. Count your blessings, not your blemishes.
86. If he's willing to cheat with you, he'll be willing to cheat on you.
87. Even the biggest failure beats the hell out of never trying.
88. Haters only hate the things they can’t get and the people they can’t be.
89. Don’t worry about what people think, they don’t do it very often.
90. If someone makes you more upset than happy, they aren’t worth your time.
91. There are a few cases where less is more does not apply. (One is your clothing.)
92. Don’t be a home-wrecker. (If someone’s taken, they’re taken. Don’t try and ruin their relationship just because you want them.)
93. Keep it classy, never trashy. Just a little bit nasty.
94. It is better to know and be disappointed than to never know and always wonder.
95. It is better to be absolutely ridiculous than absolutely boring.


to be continued...

Wednesday, May 18, 2011

Modern Etiquette

This Morning I was browsing the net for sources since my job demands it. Something caught my attention regarding Modern Etiquette and how to reform to a rude world. Hmmm, quite interesting isn’t it? I guess every body experienced crab mentality or just plainly someone hated you out of no reason. Well Rudeness is epidemic all over today. And I'm not even talking about cyber-rudeness.
People steal each other's cabs. Telephone receptionists are nasty. Sales clerks act like they're doing you a favor when you buy something. Waiters exhibit an attitude. Vicious gossip sells newspapers. Decency is considered boring.
Look outside and you'll see litter everywhere except in trash cans. (How True!) Sit down in a restaurant and you'll find gum is underneath every table. Go into an office and you'll see bosses who don't treat their teams like human beings.
The list could go on forever. I know because I pay a lot of attention to these things. And all of it begs a question.
Hasn't anyone noticed that if we want to change anybody else, we first must change ourselves?
Books can be written. Speeches can be made. But I ask you: Who ever learned to ride a bicycle by reading a book?
The point is that any significant, lasting change must come from within, not from without. I can rattle off information about etiquette skills, but they ring hollow if we don't honor some very basic principles for success. 1. Every living thing deserves respect. You wouldn’t like it if somebody stabs you at your back or throw stones at you so better yet do not do onto others as you would want do onto you. If you don’t have anything nice to say to a person, just don’t say anything at all.
2. A person's wealth really is determined by the quality and integrity of his relationships. Our relationships are the most important and significant components of our lives. If, in fact, our relationships with our Higher Power, our self, our spouse, our family and friends, and finally, our career - in that order - are healthy, then the material trappings believed by most of us to be "wealth" will more likely become ours. Think about it. What are the qualities and actions that really help in attaining success and sustaining it throughout a business career?
3. Our relationships are smoother and more satisfying when we understand and use the basic etiquette skills that make sense for our individual lifestyles.
4. Manners and etiquette is not the same thing. Manners have to do with our basic attitude and approach to life and the people in it. Kindness is the essence of good manners. Etiquette, on the other hand, is a set of rules that govern our relationships in various situations. Etiquette is different from country to country, city to city, company to company. For example, in the United States the handshake is an essential part of greeting. In Japan, however, a bow takes the place of a handshake. Is one better than the other? Certainly not.
5. Honesty and a sense of humor about oneself are essential to a successful, prosperous life.
I have no interest in putting myself out of business with this writing. On the contrary. All of those unspoken prejudices about behavior and etiquette are as pronounced in today's business arena as they ever were. But people who do business successfully realize that the essence of productive business relationships is the people in them.
Try this out for yourself with this simple test the next time you have the pleasure of that harassed, apparently surly waiter or waitress:
Instead of sounding irritated, try saying in a polite and sympathetic tone: "You really have your hands full, but the next time you come by, may I please have some more coffee?"
You will get your coffee with a smile -- I promise.
I am not saying all of this to get my hands cleaned, just want to share a little thought I learned today. :)
Have a good day!

Tuesday, May 17, 2011

Ladies Facts


Every girl has five personalities.

1. How she acts at school/work.
2. How she acts around her friends.
3. How she acts around her family.
4. How she acts when she's with him.
5. How she acts when she's alone.

Sunday, May 15, 2011

"A Dream Is A Wish Your Heart Makes"

A dream is a wish your heart makes
When you're fast asleep
In dreams you lose your heartaches
Whatever you wish for, you keep

Have faith in your dreams and someday
Your rainbow will come smiling thru
No matter how your heart is grieving
If you keep on believing
The dream that you wish will come true

A dream is a wish your heart makes
When you're feeling small, yeah
Alone in the night you whisper
Thinking no one can hear you at all
You wake with the morning sunlight
To find fortune that is smiling on you
Don't let your heart be filled with sorrow
For all you know, tomorrow
The dream that you wish will come true, oooh, yeah

A dream is a wish your heart makes
When you're fast asleep
In dreams you lose your heartaches
Whatever you wish for, you keep

You wake with the morning sunlight
To find fortune that is smiling on you
Don't let your heart be filled with sorrow
For all you know, tomorrow
The dream that you wish will come true
No matter your heart is grieving
If you keep on believing
The dream that you wish will come true
Ooh, yeah, come true

My childhood

A whole new world. Riding in a magic carpet together with Aladdin, adoring the beautiful scenes around the palace, hmmm, I used to dream when I was 8. - I am in a roller coaster ride with you, course is full of bumps, twist and turns, ups and downs but who cares as long as I'm with you we'll make it through. I can picture us laughing after plunging this ride, now who needs a carpet?

Tale as old as time. My most favorite fairytale up to now. - Someday baby I wanna see myself grow old with you, and as soon as it happens, together, we will tell our story to jared. ♥

Bibbidi Bobbidi Boo. Every princess needs a little help from fairies. - I think I have one too. No hindrances can keep us apart. And even if there are two wicked sisters exist in our own story still nobody can stand a chance. Because Love conquers all.

Fight like a girl. In every woman lies a man at heart. - I have to, especially how deceiving the world can be. Yet sometimes just like Mulan I still messed up most of the time. You've seen me at my worst but you choose to love me. No if's, No but's you just did. ♥

Faith.Trust and Pixie Dust. - I think Peter Pan is quite right here. For Long Lasting Relationship we need FAITH, TRUST, (think of happy thoughts) and together baby we'll grow old. :)

Once Upon A Dream - Once upon a time you we're just a dream, But now you're my happily ever after. ♥

The fairest one of all. - (Singing) ♫ Some day my prince will come, Some day we'll meet again, And away to his castle we'll go, To be happy forever I know. Some day when spring is here, We'll find our love anew, And the birds will sing, And wedding bells will ring, Some day when my dreams come true. ♫ (humming)You already came, I'll patiently wait till that day comes. (Y'know what I mean. hint: our dreams ♥)

Hakuna Matata - Yes when I'm with you all my worries fade away. Free from mind boggling problems. With you, I felt nothing but serenity and tranquility.

Under the sea. My second favorite fairytale. - (Me Singing) ♫ What would I give to live where you are? What would I pay to stay here beside you? What would I do to see you smiling at me? Where would we walk? Where would we run? If we could stay all day in the sun, Just you and me, And I could be part of your world. I don't know when, I don't know how. But I know something starting right now. Watch and you'll see, Someday I'll be part of your world. ♫

You have dressed my dreams and hopes with rainbow. Ever since you came it feels like I'm living in a world of fairly tales. Me as your princess and you as my prince.
You rekindled my belief towards fairy tales isn't just about "Once upon a time" that somehow if you never stop hoping "Happily ever after" really do exist.

A girl's point of view.



#1 When you break her heart, the pain never really goes away.
#2 When she misses you, she’s hurting inside.
#3 When she says it’s over, she still wants you to be hers.
#4 When she walks away from you mad, follow her.
#5 When she stares at your mouth, kiss her.
#6 When she pushes or hits you, grab her tight & don’t let her go.
#7 When she starts cursing at you, kiss her and tell her you love her.
#8 When she ignores you, give her your attention.
#9 When she pulls away, pull her back.
#10 When you see her at her worst, tell her she’s beautiful.
#11 When you see her crying, just hold her and don’t say a word.
#12 When you see her walking, sneak up and hug her waist from behind.
#13 When she’s scared, protect her.
#14 When she lays her head on your shoulder, tilt her head up and kiss her.
#15 When she steals your favorite jacket, let her keep it and sleep with it for a night.
#16 When she teases you, tease her back and make her laugh.
#17 When she doesn’t answer for a long time, reassure her that everything is okay.
#18 When she looks at you with doubt, back yourself up with the truth.
#19 When she says that she likes you, she really does more than you could understand.
#20 When she grabs your hands, hold hers and play with her fingers.
#21 When she bumps into you, bump into her back and make her laugh.
#22 When she tells you a secret, keep it safe and untold.
#23 When she looks at you in your eyes, don’t look away until she does.
#24 Stay on the phone with her even if she’s not saying anything.
#25 Don’t let her have the last word.
#26 Don’t call her hot, but gorgeous or beautiful is so much better.
#27 Say you love her more than she could ever love you.
#28 Argue that she is the best girl ever.
#29 When she’s mad, hug her tight and don’t let go.
#30 When she says she’s OK, don’t believe it, talk to her about it, because 10 yrs later she’ll still remember it.
#31 Call her at 12:00am on special occasions to tell her you love her.
#32 Call her before you sleep and after you wake up.
#33 Treat her like she’s all that matters to you.
#34 Don’t ignore her when she’s out with you and your friends.
#35 Stay up all night with her when she’s sick.
#36 Watch her favorite movie with her or her favorite show even if you think its stupid.
#37 Let her into your world.
#38 Let her wear your clothes.
#39 When she’s bored and sad, hang out with her
#40 Let her know she’s important.
#41 Kiss her in the pouring rain.
#42 When she runs up at you crying, the first thing you say is; “Who’s ass am I kicking today baby?”
#43 After I post this, I hope one day you'll read this. :)

Monday, May 9, 2011

LETTER FROM GOD

To My Daughter,

“No man will ever claim you unless he claims you from me.” For I reserve a man for you who has my heart and loves me even more than he will offer you. For I won’t give you unless he asks you from me. He’s asleep; don’t wake him. He’s busy for me, in my kingdom. Soon you will know him, but I have the perfect time. You are my princess, my daughter. Let no prince claim you unless he asks you from my hand, for I am your Father, the King of Kings. You my princess, is worth loving for.

From,
GOD


(Re-blog from Tumblr: I find it sincere.)

Thursday, May 5, 2011

What is Love when I met you?


Love is when I see you smelly and sweaty and I still see you handsome and hotter than ever.

Love is when you notice that I’m getting fat yet you still convince me that I’m sexy.

Love is when you make me smile even when I’m tired.

Love is when I’m happy and you still have the power to make me cry for joy with your effortless surprises.

Love is when we are in a fight and I can’t concentrate at work.

Love is when I’m mad yet just one text from you changes it all.

Love is when I’m already tipsy and you’ll take my shot.

Love is when you put fries on my mouth continuously.

Love is when you hold my hands in public. :)

Love is when you post something on my wall in facebook regardless of who will see that.

Love is when you kiss me in front of your friends.

Love is when I need company and you refuse to come because you’re too lazy to move and yet, still I understand. tsk

Love is when I kiss you after putting on lip-gloss and the sticky feeling doesn’t even bother you.

Love is when you share your favorite foods with me.

Love is when I’m hungry and you offer your last penny for me.

Love is when I sniff your shirt after wearing it.

Love is when you massage my back when It's aching.

Love is when you compile my photos and make video clips for me.

Love is when you miss my Baby Jared.

Love is when you're excited to give Baby Jared a kiss and a hug more than I do.

Wednesday, May 4, 2011

A Profound Wisdom from my Mom

I see my mom as a map; whenever I’m lost she always show me the right way. A psychiatrist that every time I loose my sanity she pulls me back to my senses. Save me from deep trouble whenever I find myself tangled in a hell like situation. She’s an angel in disguise. We may not agree on a lot of things but I always end up thinking “I should’ve listen to her.” I see my mom as the store house of wisdom, when things get complicated and confusing, when things get unreasonable and I feel like I’ve been cheated, when everything seems unfair and hopeless, Mom used to tell me all this things…

People are often unreasonable, illogical, and self-centered; forgive them anyway.
If you are kind, people may accuse you of selfish, ulterior motives; be kind anyway.
If you are successful, you will win some false friends and some true friends; succeed anyway.
If you are honest and frank, people may cheat you; be honest and frank anyway.
What you spend years building, someone could destroy overnight; build anyway.
If you find serenity and happiness, they may be jealous; be happy anyway.
The good you do today, people will often forget tomorrow; do good anyway.
Give the world your best anyway.


You see, in the final analysis, it is between you and God; it was never between you and them anyway.


Anyway you look at it there’s a profound wisdom. It may look unfair at first but if you’re going to be selfless, living is easier. We are the ones who make things complicated.

What I’ve learned from my mom as I grew up, I pass it on to my son.

Jared, My Dearest I hope you grow up to be a beautiful person from the outside and the inside most importantly. I do not wish for any treasure in this world, because I already have something valuable than gold, diamonds or gems the world can offer. That precious has the smallest hands yet can actually hold my whole heart. I Love You My Precious.

Sunday, May 1, 2011

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I see no stars tonight
Only clouds and gloomy skies
As dim as your eyes as you said goodbye
An enigmatic smile yet nothing but a lie

I could hear the angry voice of the wind,
Blowing in my ears as it scream
Just like the sullen rumbling as you breathe
A perfect Love trapped in the realm of myth

Only if I could dance to stop the rain to pour
Cast a magic spell to cease your tears to fall
You know I’d go breaking the walls
Lock you in my arms and kiss your eyes while tears flow.


By: mi-etch